What are afraid of young mothers?
Young mothers tend to worry about any occasion, because for them this is a new experience. After some time it will pass. Now for You as never before, needs the support of Your family and friends. You have already taken away from the hospital, the relatives of the departed, and the young dad goes in the morning to earn money. You stay with the crumbs alone. And it is here that You start to worry, that does not know how to deal with a child, as if he did not hurt.
The first, which was a young mother, do not understand the requirements of a crying baby, and to do something not so. Don't worry about it. For Your crumbs in this time of mourning - this is the only way of communication. Only with the help of it he may tell You that he needs something. Weeping, he announces that he's hungry or thirsty, and maybe he just misses You. Look, dry if his diaper, nothing if it is not pressure, but maybe You are in the room was too hot and the lack of fresh air? Believe me, it would take very little time, and You will learn how to decipher its requirements without any problems. Most often, in the first months after birth babies are plagued by intestinal colic. They are exposed to about 70 % of newborns. This pain is one of the most common causes of infant crying. Recognize it can be, if, after the feeding of the baby pulls up the legs to the belly, and shouted and turned red. Put him on his tummy warm cloth. Don't forget to feeding put it on for a few minutes on his tummy.
Part of the children act up, before I go to sleep. The symptoms of immature nervous system. In that case, if the baby is not hungry, air temperature does not exceed the norm, and the diaper not wet, then short-term weeping before bedtime, and sometimes and in the period of light sleep - it's not terrible. Especially, if this happens in the first three months of the life of the crumbs.
During the walk of a child crying also provoked by the immaturity of the nervous system and undeveloped processes of braking. Baby can get excited by changes in temperature, lighting or in an abrupt changes in the environment that can cause a weeping, and then sleep. Don't worry, in this there is absolutely nothing wrong. Rock the baby on hands or give his chest.
Secondly, my mother often afraid to spoil their child.
The attention of the parents to the child - this is a very important moment. It soothe the feeling of Your body, Your voice and the beating of Your heart. Fear not often take the crumbs on his hands, hug him, tenderly to communicate with him. Feed him on request. Even if Your baby is bottle-feeding, feed him, holding on hands. Does not need to allow a long loud weeping. It only slows down the development of the nervous system, so as the mourning inhibits nerve impulses.
If the baby is bathed in the love of parents, its development is much faster. And for You soon become the true reward of his conscious smile, addressed to You personally, his beloved mother.
Thirdly, the mother quite often fear to bathe your baby.
Mothers are afraid of not keep the baby in the water. Often this fear is especially sharp, when the child begins to bathe in the big bath. Do not fear, but instinct will give You a drop of his crumbs. And if at the time of adoption of water procedures baby slip out and completely absorbed, it is nothing terrible will happen. For children up to three months automatically there is a delay of breath in this case. If this has happened in several later age, the tilt of the baby at an angle of 45 degrees, that he откашлял water, trapped inside. Occasionally water gets into the ears of the crumbs. To remove it, enough roll of cotton ball and flagellum doesn wet ear. Remember: baby feel Your inner state, so he is also passed Your fear and Your confusion. Calm down, and try to make bathing in an exciting game.
Also quite often mothers nightmares, associated with sleep crumbs.
You can get up several times a night to check, breathing a Your baby. In the morning, in the time of feeding You are afraid of accidentally sleep and flatten it. During the day You fear that the child might fall out of the bed, and in the evening, that he seemed to choke on Your jelly and drown. This is a typical manifestation of the maternal instinct. You are constantly tense, in anticipation of any dangers. A vague uneasiness - frequent enough phenomenon of the young mothers, associated with chronic fatigue, change in hormonal levels and reduced emotional tonus. You may be advised to one - relax.
As a rule, this condition is rather typical for a young mother. Then You will pursue fears that the baby will fall and hurt hit, then, that it is not long out of school, then, that he didn't come home for the night and so on. Now You understand how worried for You, Your mom, although at the time You thought that she constantly to You nagging. It is now Your turn to worry.
9 tips for young mothers
Boil water for bathing and flavouring its various disinfectants is NOT necessarily, if You have a centralized water supply.
NO need to tightly swaddle a crumb. Without this he will not legged.
Disposable diapers in no event will NOT harm Your baby. They support the same temperature, as in gauze diapers. Should only be changed in time filled with diapers on dry and clean.
With a weight of more than 3.5 kg, baby perfectly brings the temperature in the room about 20 degrees and NEVER freezes.
The baby did NOT necessarily gone, if his nose is clear mucus. In absolutely tranquil behavior of the baby, a good appetite do not stuff it once again medicines. Try to start to hide in the room.
Sling does NOT harm the posture of the child. Pose crumbs in your body when carrying the physiological. Today use sling recommend that even orthopedists.
If in his backpack «kangaroo» provides horizontal position of the baby with a uniform distribution of the load that emulate worn on the hands, it won'T harm Your baby.
If You use an enema, send vapor tube or other mechanical devices in intestinal colic, it is in NO way affect the psyche of the crumbs or his sexual orientation.
It is NOT worth to listen all in a row advice from experienced mothers. Remember that Your baby is unique and it is not necessarily fit what it's different.
Young mothers tend to worry about any occasion, because for them this is a new experience. After some time it will pass. Now for You as never before, needs the support of Your family and friends. You have already taken away from the hospital, the relatives of the departed, and the young dad goes in the morning to earn money. You stay with the crumbs alone. And it is here that You start to worry, that does not know how to deal with a child, as if he did not hurt.
The first, which was a young mother, do not understand the requirements of a crying baby, and to do something not so. Don't worry about it. For Your crumbs in this time of mourning - this is the only way of communication. Only with the help of it he may tell You that he needs something. Weeping, he announces that he's hungry or thirsty, and maybe he just misses You. Look, dry if his diaper, nothing if it is not pressure, but maybe You are in the room was too hot and the lack of fresh air? Believe me, it would take very little time, and You will learn how to decipher its requirements without any problems. Most often, in the first months after birth babies are plagued by intestinal colic. They are exposed to about 70 % of newborns. This pain is one of the most common causes of infant crying. Recognize it can be, if, after the feeding of the baby pulls up the legs to the belly, and shouted and turned red. Put him on his tummy warm cloth. Don't forget to feeding put it on for a few minutes on his tummy.
Part of the children act up, before I go to sleep. The symptoms of immature nervous system. In that case, if the baby is not hungry, air temperature does not exceed the norm, and the diaper not wet, then short-term weeping before bedtime, and sometimes and in the period of light sleep - it's not terrible. Especially, if this happens in the first three months of the life of the crumbs.
During the walk of a child crying also provoked by the immaturity of the nervous system and undeveloped processes of braking. Baby can get excited by changes in temperature, lighting or in an abrupt changes in the environment that can cause a weeping, and then sleep. Don't worry, in this there is absolutely nothing wrong. Rock the baby on hands or give his chest.
Secondly, my mother often afraid to spoil their child.
The attention of the parents to the child - this is a very important moment. It soothe the feeling of Your body, Your voice and the beating of Your heart. Fear not often take the crumbs on his hands, hug him, tenderly to communicate with him. Feed him on request. Even if Your baby is bottle-feeding, feed him, holding on hands. Does not need to allow a long loud weeping. It only slows down the development of the nervous system, so as the mourning inhibits nerve impulses.
If the baby is bathed in the love of parents, its development is much faster. And for You soon become the true reward of his conscious smile, addressed to You personally, his beloved mother.
Thirdly, the mother quite often fear to bathe your baby.
Mothers are afraid of not keep the baby in the water. Often this fear is especially sharp, when the child begins to bathe in the big bath. Do not fear, but instinct will give You a drop of his crumbs. And if at the time of adoption of water procedures baby slip out and completely absorbed, it is nothing terrible will happen. For children up to three months automatically there is a delay of breath in this case. If this has happened in several later age, the tilt of the baby at an angle of 45 degrees, that he откашлял water, trapped inside. Occasionally water gets into the ears of the crumbs. To remove it, enough roll of cotton ball and flagellum doesn wet ear. Remember: baby feel Your inner state, so he is also passed Your fear and Your confusion. Calm down, and try to make bathing in an exciting game.
Also quite often mothers nightmares, associated with sleep crumbs.
You can get up several times a night to check, breathing a Your baby. In the morning, in the time of feeding You are afraid of accidentally sleep and flatten it. During the day You fear that the child might fall out of the bed, and in the evening, that he seemed to choke on Your jelly and drown. This is a typical manifestation of the maternal instinct. You are constantly tense, in anticipation of any dangers. A vague uneasiness - frequent enough phenomenon of the young mothers, associated with chronic fatigue, change in hormonal levels and reduced emotional tonus. You may be advised to one - relax.
As a rule, this condition is rather typical for a young mother. Then You will pursue fears that the baby will fall and hurt hit, then, that it is not long out of school, then, that he didn't come home for the night and so on. Now You understand how worried for You, Your mom, although at the time You thought that she constantly to You nagging. It is now Your turn to worry.
9 tips for young mothers
Boil water for bathing and flavouring its various disinfectants is NOT necessarily, if You have a centralized water supply.
NO need to tightly swaddle a crumb. Without this he will not legged.
Disposable diapers in no event will NOT harm Your baby. They support the same temperature, as in gauze diapers. Should only be changed in time filled with diapers on dry and clean.
With a weight of more than 3.5 kg, baby perfectly brings the temperature in the room about 20 degrees and NEVER freezes.
The baby did NOT necessarily gone, if his nose is clear mucus. In absolutely tranquil behavior of the baby, a good appetite do not stuff it once again medicines. Try to start to hide in the room.
Sling does NOT harm the posture of the child. Pose crumbs in your body when carrying the physiological. Today use sling recommend that even orthopedists.
If in his backpack «kangaroo» provides horizontal position of the baby with a uniform distribution of the load that emulate worn on the hands, it won'T harm Your baby.
If You use an enema, send vapor tube or other mechanical devices in intestinal colic, it is in NO way affect the psyche of the crumbs or his sexual orientation.
It is NOT worth to listen all in a row advice from experienced mothers. Remember that Your baby is unique and it is not necessarily fit what it's different.
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